Posted by Anna on May 19, 1997 at 06:43:05:
In reply to Re: Gratitude counts for too much? posted by AnneM on May 18, 1997 at 21:05:57
]] If you'll pardon my being autobiographical, I'm coming at it from my own awareness of betrayal
] Her brother or another relative had to take her in, and in that situation I would be upset and hard pressed not to have extreme negative feelings. What do you think?
I think that one's own experience has a large influence on one's view of the rights and wrongs of this sort of behaviour - besides there is rarely any absolutely right solution. Interestingly enough, my 'natural' tendency is along the 'say nothing if you can't say something nice' line, and having seen the damage that approach can take I may be over compensating!
Maybe Zoe and I should attempt an average ;-)
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