] I thought Mrs Dashwood was very harsh with Elinor. Elinor asked Mrs Dashwood to find out if her sister was engaged to Willoughby.

] She accuses Elinor of lack of compassion, feelings and a multitude of other sins.

] I am disturbed by this chapter as it throws everyone into a bad light. Willoughby, Mrs Dashwood, Marrianne.

Also what was the huge deal of Elinor asking Marianne if she was engaged? After all doesn't a mother or sister have a right to know what her daughter/sister is doing, especially when comes to something life changing like an engagement?