] I'm a bit confused as to where Stanhill fits in to the picture. Mr & Mrs H Dashwood lived there before moving to Norland to be with their uncle, the girls were small, Sir JM visited them there and much of the furniture from there was moved to Norland and is inherited by Mrs D.

Since you mentioned it, I was curious myself and searched for the answer. In the chapters we have covered so far, we are told that Mrs. Henry Dashwood received some of the contents. The remainder of that question will be answered in Ch. 33 in a conversation between Elinor and John. So until that time....