] She steps up, stays strong and does what needs to be done for her family. None of this was necessary before her father died, so in that sense, I think this was all a very new thing for her.

I was refering to the part Cheryl quoted: "a strength of understanding, and coolness of judgment, which qualified her, though only nineteen, to be the counsellor of her mother" and counteracting her mother's tendency to be imprudent.