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I Can't Help Wondering
Written by BarbaraB
(10/8/2006 2:31 a.m.)
in consequence of the missive, They could rent another cottage, penned by Tracy W
The Dashwoods do have to marry in order to remain/regain their status in the upper tier of the gentry since they are not independently wealthy. Otherwise they would be subject to a life of 'genteel poverty'. To us this all sounds a bit crazy because we see their 'poverty' as being leaps and bounds better than what many of us grew up in ourselves or even exist in today. But this was a 'system' that the gentry wanted to preserve and in order to do so, one had to retain a certain level of respectability when it came to money and conducting ones' self according to the 'rules'. While, as you say, it was not essential, they marry to keep them out of the hedgerows, "In Austen's day, single woman who weren't wealthy were scorned as spinsters, so marriage conveyed status for a woman... ...The husband protected the wife and secured her place in society..." (Joan Kligel Ray) In some instances 'scorned' might seem a bit harsh but 'poor' spinsters were often treated differently. In our last group read, we saw an example of this. Friends and neighbors were kind to the characters I'm speaking of and helped out, yet, at one of the parties they were only invited to the after dinner entertainment because they had lost their 'upper gentry' status due to a lack of funds. It was an unfortunate part of the way things worked and if the Dashwood sisters were to avoid a similar fate, they would have to marry. :) |

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