"Mary and Kitty have been very kind, and would have shared in every fatigue, I am sure, but I did not think it right for either of them. Kitty is slight and delicate; and Mary studies so much, that her hours of repose should not be broken in on." (Chapter 47)
Mary and Kitty both act rather selfishly immature by not helping Jane with their mother or the household after the elopement. Lizzy notes that they are both tolerably calm. Mary consoles herself with moralizing and talking of sisterly devotion rather than actually showing some devotion. Kitty is upset over the loss of her favorite sister and the anger she incurred when the family found out she had been aware of an attachment between Lydia and Wickham for many weeks:
"My father and mother knew nothing of that; they only felt how imprudent a match it must be. Kitty then owned, with a very natural triumph on knowing more than the rest of us, that in Lydia's last letter she had prepared her for such a step. She had known, it seems, of their being in love with each other, many weeks." (Chapter 47)
The way Kitty owned to knowing more than the rest of the family, with triumph illustrates that she is very foolish. Being Lydia's minion she brings no older sister type wisdom to the relationship. At first I could not think of why Kitty revealed her prior knowledge, if, as Jane reports it (and who would disbelieve her) that the elopement caused confusion in the house. Two reasons IMO. First, I think Kitty jumped at the chance to show she had information unavailable to the others—too late she realized it would be no triumph. Second was that Kitty believed along with Lydia that they would return to Longbourn married and it was not until later when they could only be traced to London that she had any concern for Lydia at all. ;D