Is not general incivility the very essence of love?"

This makes me laugh because Darcy pretty much touched on all areas of incivility, specifically to generally with Lizzy. He starts out with a direct insult in Chapter 3, to silently staring in Chapters 6 and 10, to silently refusing to look up from his book for half an hour in Chapter 12. Despite all this incivility Lizzy never recognized that Darcy looked at her with admiration from Chapter 6 onward because of the initial insult in Chapter 3. ;D