documented incidents where Lady R interfered, or attempted to interfere, in Anne's life, but my impression is these are not isolated incidents. She does have a special place in the family due to her relationship with Anne's late mother, but as I pointed out, Anne is now an adult, and it is time for the busybody to butt out. A private opinion is one thing, expressing it is another. I never give advice to people unless they specifically ask for it (and then I am very careful about what I say), and believe me, my son AND my daughter-in-law appreciate that fact!