Interesting thought. Probably.
Written by nan duval
(4/17/2010 2:01 p.m.)
in consequence of the missive, I Wonder, penned by BarbaraB
If the father is physically absent (off at sea, travelling to India on business, fighting against Napoleon, or even dead) one can have a fantasy that he yearns to be with his child & if he were there he would be all attention & admiration, rather than having daily evidence to the contrary.