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Needed rather than Needy Written by Robbin (9/16/2010 2:42 a.m.) in consequence of the missive, Mrs. Norris may not have had revenge in her heart., penned by Patricia AA

Fanny’s desire to be important to (needed by) someone is completely natural—I am not sure how that translates into emotionally needy. I don’t think she has felt important to anyone since leaving her “brothers and sisters among whom she had always been important as playfellow, instructress, and nurse” (2) at Portsmouth. Edmund and William care for her but they don’t need her. Lady Bertram says she cannot do without Fanny but she can very well if someone else takes her place—there is no real need for Fanny the individual. Emotionally needy evokes a neurotic and clingy image for me is that what you meant? I am also unsure how Fanny is codependent—can you say on who or what she is dependent?

Mrs. Norris may want attention but she likes to be in charge, plan and direct—that suggests to me she wants to feel important. (:D)

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Mrs. Norris – Too Angry Robbin (9/12/2010 1:33 a.m.)

Mrs Norris - classic bully Janey (9/13/2010 2:49 p.m.)
- Good point! nfm Rachel G (9/13/2010 2:56 p.m.)
Did Mrs. Norris "cause" the breach? Laurel (9/12/2010 8:56 a.m.)
- Laying Groundwork Robbin (9/12/2010 4:57 p.m.)
  - I maybe wrong here but to me it sounds as if greg (9/14/2010 6:46 p.m.)
    - Ask & You Shall Receive Robbin (9/14/2010 11:00 p.m.)
      - She seems to have eloped, don't you think?   Graciela (9/15/2010 2:53 p.m.)
        
        At home or abroad   Robbin (9/15/2010 8:20 p.m.)
        
        These questions always bring me to mind...   Karen G (9/17/2010 2:36 p.m.)
        
        I agree   Tori Marie (9/16/2010 8:23 a.m.)
- She did all she could to make sure of it. Rachel G (9/12/2010 12:59 p.m.)
  - Sir Thomas' pride Linda L (9/16/2010 9:44 a.m.)
  - Who can talk to whom? Melinda (9/12/2010 8:29 p.m.)
    - Please to return to the Newcomers' board Myretta (9/12/2010 10:12 p.m.)
  - Spirit of Activity Robbin (9/12/2010 8:22 p.m.)
    - Good points about Mrs Norris and her needs. I think she AnnetteJ (9/14/2010 9:01 a.m.)
The Ward Sisters BarbaraB (9/12/2010 8:12 a.m.)
- Miss Frances Tori Marie (9/16/2010 8:47 a.m.)
  - True BarbaraB (9/16/2010 5:54 p.m.)
    - Angry people are not always wise :-) (nfm) Nicki (9/17/2010 8:28 a.m.)
      - Also True :) nfm BarbaraB (9/17/2010 10:44 a.m.)
- Being Eldest Carol (9/12/2010 1:00 p.m.)
- She wants to protect her role in the family LauraMarie (9/12/2010 8:58 a.m.)
  - Does Fanny challenge Mrs. Norris? Robbin (9/12/2010 1:41 p.m.)
    - No, not directly LauraMarie (9/14/2010 5:20 a.m.)
Mrs Norris likes to manage other people Mary Skater (9/12/2010 7:23 a.m.)
- Maria made the "best" marriage by the AnnetteJ (9/12/2010 1:21 p.m.)
  - The trappings of success - even if it's someone else's success Tom P2 (9/15/2010 7:25 p.m.)
    - That was very laugh out loud funny! nfm Barb JA (9/16/2010 3:25 p.m.)
- Miss Ward and Miss Frances Stephanie (9/12/2010 1:16 p.m.)
  - Children Lyzah (9/12/2010 2:43 p.m.)
    - Not likely she PREVENTED children Cathy Allen (9/12/2010 4:49 p.m.)
      - I agree as I stated below -- my belief is that he was AnnetteJ (9/12/2010 4:53 p.m.)
    - Mr Norris might have been incapable of siring a child AnnetteJ (9/12/2010 4:30 p.m.)
      - What sort of mother would Mrs Norris be? YIKES (NFM)   jeffrey (9/13/2010 9:22 a.m.)
        
        Amid the cares [] which [her] own children suggested   Stephanie (9/13/2010 11:37 a.m.)
        
        Parenting style of Mrs. Norris in Ch. 2   Barb JA (9/13/2010 5:53 p.m.)
        
        Not a very attractive picture, to be sure   Erica (9/13/2010 7:48 p.m.)
        
        Away at school   Barb JA (9/14/2010 7:17 a.m.)
        
        I think   Erica (9/14/2010 10:27 p.m.)
        
        Mrs. Norris hereafter known as Mrs. Nasty! :) nfm   Barb JA (9/17/2010 8:36 a.m.)
      - Or perhaps...   Rachel G (9/12/2010 4:58 p.m.)
        
        I'm astounded   Angela L (9/13/2010 1:23 p.m.)
        
        Mrs. Norris could not possibly keep to herself   Stephanie (9/13/2010 2:22 p.m.)
        
        The key to Mrs. Norris' character   Carol (9/13/2010 4:20 p.m.)
        
        I'm not sure if I'm right   Angela L (9/13/2010 3:04 p.m.)
        
        That makes sense   Barb JA (9/14/2010 7:35 a.m.)
        
        Very interesting   Frances G (9/13/2010 11:49 p.m.)
        
        Mrs. Norris does enjoy being in charge.   Patricia AA (9/14/2010 12:16 a.m.)
        
        It is a Twisted Way of Revenge   Lenora (9/15/2010 3:37 p.m.)
        
        Revenge & Importance   Robbin (9/15/2010 6:08 p.m.)
        
        Perhaps Competitive Rather Than Revengeful   Lenora (9/16/2010 10:04 a.m.)
        
        Good points (:D)   Robbin (9/16/2010 7:42 p.m.)
        
        That and something else   Tori Marie (9/16/2010 11:39 a.m.)
        
        "A niece of ours, Sir Thomas",   nan duval (9/18/2010 10:06 a.m.)
        
        Mrs. Norris 's Imagination doing OT?   Patricia AA (9/16/2010 6:03 p.m.)
        
        Mrs. Norris may not have had revenge in her heart.   Patricia AA (9/15/2010 7:43 p.m.)
        
        Needed rather than Needy   Robbin (9/16/2010 2:42 a.m.)
        
        Edmund is Fanny's only emotional support at MP.   Patricia AA (9/16/2010 9:18 a.m.)
        
        Emotions & Desperation   Robbin (9/16/2010 5:57 p.m.)
        
        Interesting thought!   Nina RG (9/13/2010 3:29 p.m.)
        
        I wondered about that   Nicki (9/13/2010 3:26 p.m.)
        
        But when Fanny arrives to Mansfield Park   Graciela (9/13/2010 3:19 p.m.)
        
        Mrs. Norris as a mother ??!   Patricia AA (9/13/2010 2:44 p.m.)
        
        Mrs. Norris should ever have it in her power   Stephanie (9/14/2010 12:56 p.m.)
        
        Well, I wonder how much of that side of herself was   AnnetteJ (9/12/2010 5:16 p.m.)
      - P.S. Unless you thought they might inherit AnnetteJ (9/12/2010 4:33 p.m.)

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