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Diplomacy vs manipulation
Written by nan duval
(4/10/2008 7:22 a.m.)
in consequence of the missive, Emma mananging Harriet vs Mr Woodhouse, penned by Tracy W
I do agree that her dealings with Harriet are very manipulative. I'm not sure if I would even call it a relationship as much as a project. Emma forms a "friendship" with Harriet after deciding to find a wife for Mr. Elton, & her dealings with her are all aimed at accomplishing this mission with dispatch. All her skills in diversion & not so veiled threats are employed to that end. She is forced to acknowlege to herself that Harriet is slow witted, but other than that she allows herself to see and accept little of what Harriet actually is or wants. Their entire relationship consists in Emma molding Harriet into what she imagines & wants her to be. She is quite ruthless in using Harriet's admiration for her as her social superior & affection for her as her benefactress to gain her end. |

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