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No longer competition Written by Chandra S (3/12/2013 12:09 p.m.) in consequence of the missive, Very insightful..., penned by Alison Y

Emma's dislike of Jane stems partly from having to (privately) acknowledge that Jane excels at things Emma wishes she excelled at, but has never applied herself to:

"Why she did not like Jane Fairfax might be a difficult question to answer; Mr. Knightley had once told her it was because she saw in her the really accomplished young woman, which she wanted to be thought herself; and though the accusation had been eagerly refuted at the time, there were moments of self-examination in which her conscience could not quite acquit her." (Ch. 20)

So, it seems that she secretly somewhat resents Jane for being so "perfect" and accomplished, and dislikes the uncomfortable feeling of comparing herself to Jane and coming up short. It makes sense that it would be easier to feel compassion and even real liking for Jane when she is suffering, appearing to not be such a paragon but rather a real human with real troubles. Emma can feel both compassionate and superior to Jane when she sees her as ill or unhappy. She only feels discomfort and dislike when she sees her as a brilliant pianist with beautiful handwriting who is so very good to her aunt and grandmother and so polite and well-spoken and pretty and ... etc.

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illness Stephanie (3/11/2013 5:57 p.m.)
- Suffering. Reeba (3/11/2013 7:59 p.m.)
  - PS: Forgot to mention one more... Reeba (3/12/2013 9:49 a.m.)
    
    Why Miss Fairfax prefered Emma as messenger Thérèse (3/15/2013 2:05 p.m.)
  - Very insightful...   Alison Y (3/11/2013 9:34 p.m.)
    
    No longer competition   Chandra S (3/12/2013 12:09 p.m.)
    
    Hmmm.   Reeba (3/12/2013 6:16 p.m.)
    
    PS: The other thing about..   Reeba (3/12/2013 6:30 p.m.)
    
    Some food for thought...   Alison Y (3/12/2013 9:07 p.m.)
    
    Emma's "dislike" of Jane Fairfax   Thérèse (3/15/2013 4:30 p.m.)
    
    Alison's and your ...   Reeba (3/16/2013 10:46 a.m.)
    
    I share your sentiment...   Alison Y (3/15/2013 5:39 p.m.)
    
    They were meant to be   Thérèse (3/16/2013 5:56 a.m.)
    
    accomplished   Nikki N (3/12/2013 11:57 p.m.)
    
    I disagree ;-)   Reeba (3/13/2013 7:56 a.m.)
    
    accomplishments, and Mr K   Nikki N (3/13/2013 11:27 p.m.)
    
    Mr Knightley   bridget D (3/14/2013 8:10 a.m.)
    
    I agree   Ramya (3/14/2013 11:59 a.m.)
    
    PS: Condescesion   Reeba (3/13/2013 8:13 a.m.)
    
    contradictory?   Nikki N (3/13/2013 11:48 p.m.)
    
    Mr Knightley vs Mr Darcy   Thérèse (3/15/2013 3:51 p.m.)
    
    wealth and consequence   Nikki N (3/15/2013 11:30 p.m.)
    
    John Knightley   bridget D (3/16/2013 3:03 a.m.)
    
    Isabella's fortune   Thérèse (3/16/2013 6:09 a.m.)
    
    Dowry   bridget D (3/16/2013 7:28 a.m.)
    
    John and Isabella's money   Thérèse (3/16/2013 8:04 a.m.)
    
    Houses and improvements   bridget D (3/16/2013 8:17 a.m.)
    
    Miss Hawkins   Thérèse (3/16/2013 8:32 a.m.)
    
    Emma the heiress   bridget D (3/16/2013 9:20 a.m.)
    
    Moderate fortune   Thérèse (3/16/2013 5:40 p.m.)
    
    servants and horses   Nikki N (3/16/2013 6:33 a.m.)
    
    Own carriage?   Thérèse (3/16/2013 7:07 a.m.)
    
    coachman   Nikki N (3/16/2013 11:39 p.m.)
    
    coachmen   bridget D (3/17/2013 4:41 a.m.)
    
    rich   Nikki N (3/17/2013 5:58 a.m.)
    
    Fortunes   bridget D (3/17/2013 7:12 a.m.)
    
    Emma's fortune   Thérèse (3/17/2013 7:57 a.m.)
    
    fortunes   Nikki N (3/17/2013 11:14 p.m.)
    
    Emma   bridget D (3/18/2013 2:35 a.m.)
    
    Past fortune   Thérèse (3/18/2013 9:30 a.m.)
    
    Mr. Woodhouse seems to have been always like that   Graciela (3/18/2013 4:24 p.m.)
    
    Woodhouses   bridget D (3/19/2013 2:43 a.m.)
    
    Mr Woodhouse changed   Thérèse (3/19/2013 1:02 p.m.)
    
    Alike but not the same   Thérèse (3/18/2013 4:54 p.m.)
    
    Marriage   bridget D (3/19/2013 2:46 a.m.)
    
    Fortune   bridget D (3/17/2013 8:18 a.m.)
    
    Emma's history   Thérèse (3/17/2013 8:26 a.m.)
    
    Emma   bridget D (3/17/2013 9:44 a.m.)
    
    Gentry/nobility   Thérèse (3/18/2013 9:40 a.m.)
    
    Bingley has a fortune of 100 thousand,   Graciela (3/18/2013 2:31 p.m.)
    
    Wealth and nobiltiy   bridget D (3/19/2013 2:50 a.m.)
    
    Titles / Nobility   Thérèse (3/19/2013 2:14 p.m.)
    
    Circles   Thérèse (3/18/2013 4:51 p.m.)
    
    Circles?   bridget D (3/19/2013 2:56 a.m.)
    
    Wishes/conformation   Thérèse (3/19/2013 1:07 p.m.)
    
    Mr Knightley has his own carriage   Margaret C (3/16/2013 10:29 a.m.)
    
    Indeed, they don't need a carriage...   Thérèse (3/16/2013 5:49 p.m.)
    
    GOing far   bridget D (3/17/2013 4:53 a.m.)
    
    You are of course right...   Reeba (3/14/2013 1:11 p.m.)
    
    Emma and Darcy   Nikki N (3/15/2013 11:49 p.m.)
    
    Emma   bridget D (3/16/2013 3:07 a.m.)
    
    Emma and self discipline   Thérèse (3/16/2013 6:14 a.m.)
    
    Emma   bridget D (3/16/2013 7:32 a.m.)
    
    Extent of Mr Woodhouse care   Thérèse (3/16/2013 7:55 a.m.)
    
    Mr Woodhouse Hard work?   bridget D (3/16/2013 8:24 a.m.)
    
    Hard work indeed   Thérèse (3/16/2013 8:57 a.m.)
    
    Agree   Reeba (3/16/2013 10:56 a.m.)
    
    Emma   bridget D (3/16/2013 11:22 a.m.)
    
    No distress - you are right.   Reeba (3/16/2013 1:46 p.m.)
    
    Emma's self discipline   bridget D (3/16/2013 7:37 p.m.)
    
    Emma handled it well...   Alison Y (3/16/2013 2:47 p.m.)
    
    Emma's fancies   bridget D (3/14/2013 3:45 p.m.)
    
    Emma   bridget D (3/14/2013 3:24 p.m.)
    
    We were...   Reeba (3/14/2013 3:46 p.m.)
    
    Knightley   bridget D (3/14/2013 2:49 a.m.)
    
    Emma   bridget D (3/13/2013 8:12 a.m.)
    
    Frequency of praise. Contradictory.   Reeba (3/13/2013 8:25 a.m.)
    
    I don't disagree...   Alison Y (3/13/2013 2:49 a.m.)
    
    The future of Mr Knightley and Emma   Thérèse (3/15/2013 3:59 p.m.)
    
    All of these mean...   Alison Y (3/12/2013 1:31 p.m.)

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